It's kind of funny isn't it?

Question: why is it that the member of the Kpop group that has the most love and appreciation for fans is usually the one who's most misunderstood and often times most ignored by said fans?  The one the fans tend to make the most inappropriate and inconsiderate jokes about. Please note that I'm using the word joke lightly here because usually the jokes being made are not funny at all. These same fans will hold onto these jokes for the longest time and get angry at anyone who calls them out for it even if it's the artist themselves. It should also be noted that these same fans will always use the excuse of "oh well the other members say the same thing, so why can't we?". Well Nancy maybe because you're not one of the members, nor are you privy to whether the person being made fun of has had the same discussion with the other members concerning the same issue which would be their dislike of said joke or jokes being made continually at their expense. 

This is something that I've always thought about as my biases (which are few for boy groups) are usually the ones who love and adore the fans but always start out being mistreated by the same fans that they love until they make their feelings concerning the mistreatment they face known only to have older fans ensuring that baby fans are aware of said inside jokes even if it's been 200 years AND by this time we're all aware the X actually hates those disgusting jokes but you heathens can't be bothered to quit using them unless it concerns your actual favorite member being talked about. 

Just a thought I felt I'd share but one I'm almost positive none of you 'fans" will respond to.

Trial & Error.