Day 10 of the 31 Days of Self Love Challenge

 Day 10 - How can you set better boundaries in your life?

Well, 2024 has been the year of me setting endless boundaries to protect my peace, and boy oh boy I can't say whether it has backfired or worked like a charm. I think what happened is I realized who my friends really were once I stopped being the first to check in or reach out to them. I quickly realized in an instant that many of my recently established friendships were one-sided. It sucks especially once I fully understood the value and necessity of friendships in your later years but it's also for the best since none of these people are the type to provide proper moral support for anyone besides themselves. As the saying goes though such is such. 

On the whole setting boundaries is a must to ensure that you don't end up disliking people or life or becoming anti-social lol. Setting boundaries at work, which is something I learned at one of my last jobs, and setting boundaries with people is a must. It's hard to start but it's a habit you need to slowly ease into.