End of the Year Blog 1.

I haven't made any New Years resolutions in quite awhile and I do not regret forgoing this tradition, however I think it would be cool to share a few habits that I have that I hope to adjust in the coming year.

1. My habit of over sharing. Yeah I need to stop being so free with sharing what's going on with my life because even if it's within the context of conversations I have with friends, potential friends or family members there are just some things that should stay within the recesses of your brain and between you and the good Lord 😬. It's not a case where I'm Ms. Tell everyone your business, it's just a case of me getting caught up sometimes and spilling info that should be kept between me, myself and I because not everyone cares, not everyone wants to help me sort out my intrusive thoughts and you know what that is perfectly fine, I guess maybe this is why I should consider getting back into therapy 😅. This is what happens when you grow up with the ideology "children should be seen, not heard" and thus get used to being the quiet kid who keeps all her feelings inside. 

2. This one I'm adding on a whim. My habit of being a shady bitch sometimes: What does that mean exactly? Well I sometimes use my Whatsapp status option as a way to air out my grievances with certain people or honestly just humanity itself when they're triggering me and that's bad. I've also been guilty of doing this using twitter and it's not something that makes me feel good. It's mainly a way to get those negative thoughts towards those people or situations out of my head otherwise they'll remain on repeat for days before I can finally move on. However, the happy feeling this gives me only lasts for a few minutes before I remember that this is not a healthy way of addressing my problems with people. 

Any who I'll end of here and wish you guys a Happy rest of the Holidays and a Happy New Year and even though I have no plans for making any New Years resolutions, I will try to work on correcting the habits mentioned above. I think that is a fair compromise for myself in the New Year.

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