Mini Rant

 Hello all my lovely readers, someday I would love to be able to chat with and get to know you better, but for now thank you sincerely for continually checking out my messy blog. Your patronage is greatly appreciated. 

Now, I won't say that I'm on the path to ultimate change because I believe life is always going to be filled with good days, bad days and gray days and there is nothing we can do with that except learn to cope and remember that neither lasts forever and all of it is perfectly normal. So instead of instant, miraculous changes in my personality, I'm aiming for learning to live life God's way, to the fullest, and to minimize, if not eliminate, truly damaging behaviours that affect me and those around me. That being said, I need to rant about how annoying some types of human beings can be and why I'm focused on the fact that no, I cannot change them, so I guess learning to live with them and not let their bad ways affect me is better in the long run. 

I'll start with one that's close by and truly disappointing to witness on a daily. My neighbour, who sadly lives below me (it's an upstairs and downstairs home) with her husband and kids. She's 2 years older than me and truly a hot ass mess of an adult. My my, how unsanitary her home is, is truly not my concern, the way she screams at her kids, definitely not my problem, her cheating on her husband, again not my issue. Her loud ass music that she plays without consideration for me now that is my problem but I'm learning that if I ask her to turn it down then I'm not in the wrong because thus far both my mom and I have been considerate of her and her people so truly we're not in the wrong for requesting the same. I guess instead of obsessing over it since I've long realized that Ms. Madam is dirty; you guys should see the mess she makes of our shared space, aka our yard, and the damages she has caused to our front gate, I shouldn't be so shocked or upset anymore just do the needful and let her know kindly how I feel about her latest inconsiderate act. 

Oh, the joys of growing up, working on being a child of God, and trying not to give myself anxiety because of annoying people who I fully realize I cannot change (not that I ever wanted to lol).

Mini rant over. Tell me your thoughts in the comments below.